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When Families Die

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As a child, I fondly recall frequent family gatherings filled with playtime with cousins, quality time with aunts and uncles, and cherished moments with grandparents. Delicious food and joyful moments were always abundant. However, occasional disputes between adults would sometimes disrupt the fun, leading to an early departure and temporary hurt feelings. But, as is often the case, forgiveness would prevail, and the gatherings would resume within a couple of weeks. But when one of the family's pillars passed away, the dynamics shifted. People took sides, and the once-joyful gatherings became smaller or ceased altogether. The children, caught in the middle, lost precious relationships with their cousins and family members. Resentment and hate began to build, and eventually, all connections were lost, As I sit in a motel room near my grandparents' old home, I'm filled with memories of joyous family gatherings. Yet, it's heartbreaking to see that now, in their twilight ye...